In spoken English, it’s not just what you say — it’s how warmly you say it. That’s where terms of endearment come in. These are special words used to express love, affection, and closeness, whether you’re talking to your partner, family, friends, or even students. In this fun and easy-to-follow guide by Guruji English Classes, I, Sunil Chaudhary, will show you how to use terms like baby, honey, bro, sweetheart, and darling the right way — without sounding awkward or forced. Whether you’re learning English for daily conversation, IELTS speaking, or professional interaction, this lesson will help you sound more natural, loving, and fluent. So, let’s explore the world of emotional English — and don’t forget to subscribe to Guruji English Classes on YouTube and join our WhatsApp Channel for daily speaking practice!
✅ SECTION 1: What Are Terms of Endearment? – An Introduction to Speaking with Affection
English is a global language — but what makes it feel human, warm, and emotional? The answer lies in how we use words to express love, care, and closeness.
One of the most beautiful parts of real, spoken English is using “terms of endearment” — special words we use to call the people we care about, whether they are friends, lovers, children, or family members.
In this section, we’ll explore what terms of endearment are, why they’re important, and how to start using them naturally in daily conversation.
💖 What Are Terms of Endearment?
A term of endearment is a word or phrase used to show affection, fondness, or emotional closeness. These words often replace a person’s name in conversation and are used to:
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Show love and warmth
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Build closeness in relationships
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Express friendship or care
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Add a personal touch to conversation
📌 Examples of Common Endearments:
Relationship | Term of Endearment |
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Romantic Partner | baby, darling, sweetheart, love, babe |
Friend | bro, sis, buddy, mate, champ |
Child | sweetie, pumpkin, angel, munchkin |
Family | dear, beta, sonny, honey, papa, mama |
You’ve probably heard many of these in movies, songs, and even casual chats.
🧠 Why Are Terms of Endearment Important in Spoken English?
Using terms of endearment makes your English sound more:
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Natural: Native speakers use them all the time.
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Emotionally intelligent: You show that you can connect with people, not just speak correctly.
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Warm and personal: It softens the conversation.
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Fluent: Shows confidence and comfort with the language.
💡 In short: It’s not just English — it’s emotional English.
🌏 Endearments Across Cultures
Different cultures use different types of endearments — and some are unique!
✅ In Western English:
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Honey, babe, sweetheart are very common in romantic relationships.
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Friends often use dude, man, bro, or sis casually.
✅ In Indian English:
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Many learners mix in Hindi-based affection like beta, babu, jaan, even while speaking English.
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We might say: “Beta, how was your exam?” in English.
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This is fine in personal settings but must be used carefully in formal or global conversations.
🗣️ When to Use Terms of Endearment
Not all situations are the same. Here’s a quick guide:
Situation | Can You Use Endearments? | Example |
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With partner or spouse | ✅ Yes | “How was your day, baby?” |
With close friends | ✅ Yes | “Bro, let’s meet at 6.” |
With colleagues or strangers | ❌ Be careful | “Hey honey” ❌ (can sound rude or too personal) |
With family (parents, kids) | ✅ Yes | “Munchkin, eat your veggies.” |
In professional email | ❌ No | Never write “Hi darling” to your boss! ❌ |
🧠 Remember: Endearments are emotional tools, not just vocabulary. Use them based on your relationship and setting.
🎭 How Endearments Change the Tone
Compare the tone of these two sentences:
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“Come here.”
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“Come here, sweetie.”
The first one sounds neutral, maybe even cold.
The second one sounds loving and affectionate — because of just one word.
🎯 That’s the power of endearment.
🧠 Common Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake | Why It’s Wrong | Better Option |
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Using romantic endearments with strangers | Sounds flirty or disrespectful | Use “sir” or “ma’am” |
Using baby talk at work | Sounds unprofessional | Speak neutrally |
Overusing “dear” in formal messages | Can seem sarcastic or forced | Use name or title |
🗣️ Real-Life Examples
👩❤️👨 Romantic:
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“Goodnight, darling. Sleep well.”
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“Babe, you forgot your wallet.”
👪 Family:
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“Beta, bring the water bottle.”
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“Mummy, you’re the best!”
👬 Friends:
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“Bro, what’s the plan?”
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“Hey champ, ready for the game?”
📝 Practice Activity – Recognize the Relationship
Match the term of endearment with the relationship:
Term | Likely Used With |
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Honey | Partner |
Angel | Child |
Buddy | Friend |
Jaanu | Romantic (Indian style) |
Papa | Father |
✅ Practice using each in 1 sentence.
💬 Challenge for You
Think of 5 people in your life and write down:
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What endearment would you naturally use with them in English?
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Is that term appropriate in public or private settings?
Example:
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My sister – “Sweetie” (Only at home)
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My best friend – “Bro” (Everywhere)
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My child – “Munchkin” (Private use)
📣 Ready to Start Using Emotional English?
This is just the beginning. There are hundreds of terms of endearment — some common, some funny, some cultural, and some completely made-up!
If you want to learn them all, and more importantly, practice speaking them in real life, then you’re invited to join our community:
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✅ SECTION 2: Romantic Terms of Endearment – For Couples and Lovers
Love has its own language — and in English, that language is filled with sweet, simple, and emotional words that bring couples closer. These words are called romantic terms of endearment, and they help express love, care, and deep connection without saying long emotional speeches.
In this section, we’ll explore the most common romantic endearments used by couples in English-speaking cultures, how to use them naturally, what to avoid, and how to sound warm — not weird or awkward.
💖 What Are Romantic Terms of Endearment?
Romantic terms of endearment are words you use with your boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, or life partner to:
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Show affection
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Express care
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Strengthen the emotional bond
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Sound playful or intimate
These are used instead of names, especially in personal, casual, or private moments.
💬 Most Common Romantic Endearments in English
Endearment | Meaning / Tone | Example |
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Baby | Soft, intimate | “Hey baby, how was your day?” |
Honey | Sweet and loving | “Honey, I made your favourite tea.” |
Darling | Classic, romantic | “Darling, you look lovely today.” |
Sweetheart | Warm and deep | “Good morning, sweetheart!” |
Love | UK-style affectionate | “What’s wrong, love?” |
Babe | Trendy and casual | “Babe, check this out!” |
My love | Emotional and poetic | “Goodnight, my love.” |
Snugglebug / Cutiepie | Playful | “Miss you, snugglebug.” |
🧠 Note: Tone and pronunciation matter a lot! These words should be said gently and warmly, not in a robotic or fake way.
🌍 Cultural Usage: Indian English vs. Western English
In India, learners sometimes mix Hindi and English:
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“Jaanu, have food.”
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“Baby, chai bana do na.”
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“Mera cutie, come here!”
✅ This is okay in personal conversations, but it’s important to know internationally accepted endearments for global fluency.
In Western cultures (like UK, US, Australia), romantic endearments are used casually but carefully. Overusing them in public may seem too dramatic or cringey.
🚫 Dos and Don’ts of Using Romantic Endearments
Do ✅ | Don’t ❌ |
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Use them in private moments | Don’t use them with strangers |
Use with soft tone and eye contact | Don’t shout them in public |
Use them if the other person is comfortable | Don’t use forcefully or awkwardly |
Adjust based on relationship level | Don’t overuse every 2 seconds |
🎯 These are emotional tools, not catchphrases.
🗣️ Real-Life Dialogues
❤️ Couple at Home
Him: Baby, did you eat lunch?
Her: Yes, sweetheart. I cooked your favourite dal today.
Him: Aww, you’re the best, love.
📱 Text Message
You: Good morning, my love ☀️
Partner: Good morning babe 💕 Miss you already!
🧠 Tips to Sound Natural (Not Forced)
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Start small – use “baby” or “honey” in texting first.
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Match tone with meaning – don’t use “snugglebug” in a serious fight 😅
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Notice what your partner uses – mirror their comfort zone.
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Don’t copy movies blindly – make it personal and real.
💬 Romantic Endearments in Action
Try saying these aloud:
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“Darling, I love spending time with you.”
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“You’re my world, babe.”
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“Goodnight, sweetheart. Sweet dreams.”
🎯 Practice saying them softly, like you’re actually talking to someone you love.
📝 Practice Activity – Replace with Endearments
Replace the name with a suitable romantic term:
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“Priya, can you pass the water?”
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“Ravi, I made dinner for you.”
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“Anu, I miss you a lot.”
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“Raj, don’t forget your phone.”
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“Pooja, I love you.”
✅ Possible Answers:
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“Baby, can you pass the water?”
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“Honey, I made dinner for you.”
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“Sweetheart, I miss you a lot.”
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“Darling, don’t forget your phone.”
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“Love, I love you.”
🧩 Common Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake | Why It’s Wrong | Correction |
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Using romantic terms with strangers | Uncomfortable and inappropriate | Use “sir”, “ma’am”, or name |
Mixing too many terms in one sentence | Sounds fake or cheesy | Use 1 endearment naturally |
Using robotic tone | Emotion is missing | Use soft, warm tone |
Using “sweetie” with boss | Not professional | Never use romantic terms at work |
💡 Fluency Builder Task
Write a short love message (3–5 sentences) to someone you care about using at least 3 romantic endearments.
Example:
“Good morning, sweetheart. I hope you slept well, baby. I miss you so much, my love.”
🎯 Read it aloud to practice tone, pronunciation, and fluency.
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✅ SECTION 3: Family Terms of Endearment – Love at Home
Family is where we first learn the language of love — not just through grammar, but through emotion, tone, and tender words. In English, just like in Hindi or any other language, families use special words of affection that create a warm, safe feeling.
These are called family terms of endearment, and in this section, we’ll explore how English-speaking families use them — with examples, cultural comparisons, and tips on how to use them naturally in your own home.
👪 What Are Family Terms of Endearment?
Family terms of endearment are affectionate words used between:
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Parents and children
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Siblings
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Grandparents and grandchildren
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Extended family (uncles, aunts, cousins)
These words build emotional closeness, show care, and create a sense of belonging in the family.
💬 Common Family Endearments in English
Relationship | Term of Endearment | Example |
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Parent to child | sweetie, pumpkin, munchkin, angel, baby | “Come here, pumpkin!” |
Child to parent | mama, daddy, mummy, papa, ma, pa | “I love you, daddy!” |
Siblings | bro, sis, kiddo, champ | “Hey sis, pass the remote.” |
Grandparents | nana, granny, pop-pop, grandpa | “Granny bakes the best cookies!” |
🎯 Many of these are casual and emotional — they are not formal names.
🧠 Why Use Endearments in the Family?
Because family is not a business! It’s not about just giving orders or talking like a textbook.
Using terms like “sweetheart,” “munchkin,” “baby girl,” etc.:
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Makes children feel loved and protected
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Builds emotional connection with parents
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Helps in discipline with softness
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Makes home a place of comfort and bonding
🧠 Even adults love being called “dear” or “beta” by their parents — it’s emotional.
🗣️ Family Conversation Examples
👩👦 Parent to Child
Mom: Come here, my little munchkin!
Child: Mummy, I want chocolate!
Mom: No, sweetie. Not before dinner.
👨👩👧👦 Siblings
Brother: What’s up, champ?
Sister: Nothing, bro. Just bored.
🇮🇳 Indian English vs Native English – Family Style
In Indian homes, we often use:
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Beta, babu, chintu, gudiya, babu shona 😄
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Mummy, papa, bhaiya, didi
In native English-speaking countries:
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Parents say: sweetie, angel, pumpkin
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Kids say: mom, dad, mama, dada (not mummy-papa)
🧠 If you’re speaking in English with your children, you can say:
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“Goodnight, angel.”
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“I’m proud of you, champ.”
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“Come help me, sweetie.”
🚸 Use of Nicknames in Families
Many parents create nicknames as terms of endearment:
Real Name | Nickname (Endearing) |
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Rohan | Ro, Roro, Champ |
Aanya | Anu, Annie, Angel |
Aryan | Aaru, Little Boss |
Meera | Mimi, Sweetpea |
✅ These names are full of love and personality, not logic.
💡 Fluency Tip
Practice these sentences aloud:
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“Good job, my little star.”
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“You’re growing up so fast, baby girl.”
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“Mummy loves you, sweetie.”
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“Nana, tell me a story.”
🎯 Notice how each sentence sounds softer and more emotional.
🚫 Common Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake | Why It’s Wrong | Better Option |
---|---|---|
Using endearments at school/office | Not professional | Use name/title |
Using “baby” with elder brother | Can sound romantic | Use “bro” or “bhaiya” |
Mixing too many nicknames | Confusing | Stick to 1 or 2 consistent ones |
Using endearments in formal writing | Informal tone | Avoid unless personal message |
📝 Activity – Create Your Family’s Endearment Map
Make a list like this:
Person | Your Endearment | Sentence |
---|---|---|
Daughter | Angel | “Come here, angel.” |
Mother | Mummy | “Mummy, I made chai today!” |
Brother | Champ | “Let’s go, champ!” |
Grandma | Nana | “Nana, you look lovely today.” |
✅ Write it down and speak the sentences aloud.
🎭 Mini Roleplay: Parent-Child Bonding
Child: Mummy, I finished my homework.
Mom: That’s great, sweetheart! I’m so proud of you.
Child: Can I have a cookie now?
Mom: Just one, my little cookie monster!
This kind of natural English creates emotional fluency, not just grammatical fluency.
📣 Speak with Warmth — Practice with Guruji
Want to learn the real English that families use — not just the English in grammar books?
✅ Get daily family-style roleplays
✅ Learn how to speak with softness and love
✅ Practice audio replies with feedback
📲 Join the Guruji English Classes WhatsApp Channel today:
👉 Click here to join
🎥 Subscribe on YouTube for real-life speaking lessons:
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✅ SECTION 3: Family Terms of Endearment – Love at Home
Family is where we first learn the language of love — not just through grammar, but through emotion, tone, and tender words. In English, just like in Hindi or any other language, families use special words of affection that create a warm, safe feeling.
These are called family terms of endearment, and in this section, we’ll explore how English-speaking families use them — with examples, cultural comparisons, and tips on how to use them naturally in your own home.
👪 What Are Family Terms of Endearment?
Family terms of endearment are affectionate words used between:
-
Parents and children
-
Siblings
-
Grandparents and grandchildren
-
Extended family (uncles, aunts, cousins)
These words build emotional closeness, show care, and create a sense of belonging in the family.
💬 Common Family Endearments in English
Relationship | Term of Endearment | Example |
---|---|---|
Parent to child | sweetie, pumpkin, munchkin, angel, baby | “Come here, pumpkin!” |
Child to parent | mama, daddy, mummy, papa, ma, pa | “I love you, daddy!” |
Siblings | bro, sis, kiddo, champ | “Hey sis, pass the remote.” |
Grandparents | nana, granny, pop-pop, grandpa | “Granny bakes the best cookies!” |
🎯 Many of these are casual and emotional — they are not formal names.
🧠 Why Use Endearments in the Family?
Because family is not a business! It’s not about just giving orders or talking like a textbook.
Using terms like “sweetheart,” “munchkin,” “baby girl,” etc.:
-
Makes children feel loved and protected
-
Builds emotional connection with parents
-
Helps in discipline with softness
-
Makes home a place of comfort and bonding
🧠 Even adults love being called “dear” or “beta” by their parents — it’s emotional.
🗣️ Family Conversation Examples
👩👦 Parent to Child
Mom: Come here, my little munchkin!
Child: Mummy, I want chocolate!
Mom: No, sweetie. Not before dinner.
👨👩👧👦 Siblings
Brother: What’s up, champ?
Sister: Nothing, bro. Just bored.
🇮🇳 Indian English vs Native English – Family Style
In Indian homes, we often use:
-
Beta, babu, chintu, gudiya, babu shona 😄
-
Mummy, papa, bhaiya, didi
In native English-speaking countries:
-
Parents say: sweetie, angel, pumpkin
-
Kids say: mom, dad, mama, dada (not mummy-papa)
🧠 If you’re speaking in English with your children, you can say:
-
“Goodnight, angel.”
-
“I’m proud of you, champ.”
-
“Come help me, sweetie.”
🚸 Use of Nicknames in Families
Many parents create nicknames as terms of endearment:
Real Name | Nickname (Endearing) |
---|---|
Rohan | Ro, Roro, Champ |
Aanya | Anu, Annie, Angel |
Aryan | Aaru, Little Boss |
Meera | Mimi, Sweetpea |
✅ These names are full of love and personality, not logic.
💡 Fluency Tip
Practice these sentences aloud:
-
“Good job, my little star.”
-
“You’re growing up so fast, baby girl.”
-
“Mummy loves you, sweetie.”
-
“Nana, tell me a story.”
🎯 Notice how each sentence sounds softer and more emotional.
🚫 Common Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake | Why It’s Wrong | Better Option |
---|---|---|
Using endearments at school/office | Not professional | Use name/title |
Using “baby” with elder brother | Can sound romantic | Use “bro” or “bhaiya” |
Mixing too many nicknames | Confusing | Stick to 1 or 2 consistent ones |
Using endearments in formal writing | Informal tone | Avoid unless personal message |
📝 Activity – Create Your Family’s Endearment Map
Make a list like this:
Person | Your Endearment | Sentence |
---|---|---|
Daughter | Angel | “Come here, angel.” |
Mother | Mummy | “Mummy, I made chai today!” |
Brother | Champ | “Let’s go, champ!” |
Grandma | Nana | “Nana, you look lovely today.” |
✅ Write it down and speak the sentences aloud.
🎭 Mini Roleplay: Parent-Child Bonding
Child: Mummy, I finished my homework.
Mom: That’s great, sweetheart! I’m so proud of you.
Child: Can I have a cookie now?
Mom: Just one, my little cookie monster!
This kind of natural English creates emotional fluency, not just grammatical fluency.
📣 Speak with Warmth — Practice with Guruji
Want to learn the real English that families use — not just the English in grammar books?
✅ Get daily family-style roleplays
✅ Learn how to speak with softness and love
✅ Practice audio replies with feedback
📲 Join the Guruji English Classes WhatsApp Channel today:
👉 Click here to join
🎥 Subscribe on YouTube for real-life speaking lessons:
👉 Guruji English Classes YouTube
✅ SECTION 4: Friendly & Playful Terms of Endearment – Between Friends
Friendship is one of the most fun and relaxed relationships, and the way we speak with friends reflects that. In English, friends often call each other by friendly, playful, and teasing endearments that show comfort, bonding, and humour.
These are not romantic or formal — they’re cool, casual, and often full of inside jokes or personality-based nicknames.
In this section, let’s learn how to use these non-romantic but affectionate terms of endearment to sound more natural and confident when talking with friends.
🤝 What Are Friendly Terms of Endearment?
These are informal nicknames or expressions used between close friends — especially in relaxed conversations.
They can be:
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Casual (bro, dude, sis)
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Funny (lazy bum, smarty, joker)
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Teasing (drama queen, chatterbox)
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Encouraging (boss, champ, rockstar)
🎯 These words help you sound more like a native speaker and less like a textbook learner.
🧠 Why Use Them?
Using friendly endearments shows that:
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You’re comfortable with the person
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You have a close bond
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You’re emotionally expressive and social
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You understand slang and cultural vibes
Just saying “hello, friend” is boring and robotic. Instead, say:
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“Yo bro, what’s up?”
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“Hey boss, you nailed it!”
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“Sup, champ?”
It instantly builds vibe and connection.
🗣️ Common Friendly Endearments (By Type)
Type | Terms | Example |
---|---|---|
Classic | bro, sis, dude, buddy, mate | “Bro, come here!” |
Encouraging | champ, boss, rockstar, hero | “You got this, champ!” |
Teasing/Funny | smarty, lazy bum, drama queen, monkey | “You’re such a smarty, dude.” |
Personal/Funny | big guy, shorty, brainiac | “Chill, brainiac.” |
✅ These terms work best between friends who know each other well.
🌍 Regional Variations
Region | Common Terms |
---|---|
US | dude, bro, man, champ |
UK | mate, pal, lad |
Australia | mate, buddy |
India | bro, bhai, yaar (mixed into English) |
🧠 You might hear:
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“What’s up, bro?” (US)
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“Alright, mate?” (UK)
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“How’s it going, yaar?” (Indian English)
🗣️ Real-Life Friendly Conversations
🎮 Gaming Friends
Ravi: Bro, ready for the match?
Arjun: Let’s go, champ. You better not choke this time, lazy bum 😄
🏀 Sports Friends
Jay: Nice shot, boss!
Aman: Thanks, man! You’re killing it too, rockstar!
🎯 These add flavour and energy to conversations.
🤪 Playful Teasing – English Style
English speakers love using teasing names to show closeness:
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“You’re such a drama queen.”
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“Don’t act smart, smarty.”
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“Okay okay, genius, we get it.”
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“Stop being a lazy bum and get up!”
✅ All of these are playful, not insulting — said with love.
But ❌ don’t use these with someone you just met.
📝 Practice Activity – Match the Term to the Tone
Term | Tone |
---|---|
Bro | Casual & friendly |
Boss | Playful praise |
Drama queen | Funny, teasing |
Rockstar | High energy praise |
Sis | Close, emotional |
✅ Now try using each in 1 sentence aloud.
💡 Quick Response Practice (Repeat Out Loud)
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“Yo bro, how’s life?”
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“Hey smarty, help me with this.”
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“Boss! That was awesome!”
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“What’s up, champ?”
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“Sis, don’t be so serious.”
🎯 Practice speaking these with emotion and rhythm.
🚫 Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake | What’s Wrong | Better |
---|---|---|
Using “bro” in formal email | Too casual | Use name or “Sir” |
Calling a girl “dude” | May feel awkward | Use “sis”, “girl”, or name |
Overusing one term in every sentence | Becomes annoying | Mix it up |
Using slang with elders | Disrespectful | Keep it simple or formal |
🎭 Mini Roleplay – Friends Catching Up
Riya: Yo sis, how was your trip?
Tanu: Amazing, smarty! I’ll send pics.
Riya: Can’t wait, drama queen 😄
Tanu: Haha! Meet at 5, lazy bum?
✅ Fun, casual, full of energy — this is how friends talk!
🎯 Build Your Own Friend Circle Vocabulary
Create a table like this:
Friend’s Name | Endearment | Why? |
---|---|---|
Akash | Champ | He wins every competition |
Reena | Smarty | Topper in class |
Rahul | Boss | Always gives orders 😂 |
Tanya | Rockstar | Full of energy |
🎯 Use these naturally in chats, reels, voice notes.
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✅ SECTION 4: Friendly & Playful Terms of Endearment – Between Friends
Friendship is one of the most fun and relaxed relationships, and the way we speak with friends reflects that. In English, friends often call each other by friendly, playful, and teasing endearments that show comfort, bonding, and humour.
These are not romantic or formal — they’re cool, casual, and often full of inside jokes or personality-based nicknames.
In this section, let’s learn how to use these non-romantic but affectionate terms of endearment to sound more natural and confident when talking with friends.
🤝 What Are Friendly Terms of Endearment?
These are informal nicknames or expressions used between close friends — especially in relaxed conversations.
They can be:
-
Casual (bro, dude, sis)
-
Funny (lazy bum, smarty, joker)
-
Teasing (drama queen, chatterbox)
-
Encouraging (boss, champ, rockstar)
🎯 These words help you sound more like a native speaker and less like a textbook learner.
🧠 Why Use Them?
Using friendly endearments shows that:
-
You’re comfortable with the person
-
You have a close bond
-
You’re emotionally expressive and social
-
You understand slang and cultural vibes
Just saying “hello, friend” is boring and robotic. Instead, say:
-
“Yo bro, what’s up?”
-
“Hey boss, you nailed it!”
-
“Sup, champ?”
It instantly builds vibe and connection.
🗣️ Common Friendly Endearments (By Type)
Type | Terms | Example |
---|---|---|
Classic | bro, sis, dude, buddy, mate | “Bro, come here!” |
Encouraging | champ, boss, rockstar, hero | “You got this, champ!” |
Teasing/Funny | smarty, lazy bum, drama queen, monkey | “You’re such a smarty, dude.” |
Personal/Funny | big guy, shorty, brainiac | “Chill, brainiac.” |
✅ These terms work best between friends who know each other well.
🌍 Regional Variations
Region | Common Terms |
---|---|
US | dude, bro, man, champ |
UK | mate, pal, lad |
Australia | mate, buddy |
India | bro, bhai, yaar (mixed into English) |
🧠 You might hear:
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“What’s up, bro?” (US)
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“Alright, mate?” (UK)
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“How’s it going, yaar?” (Indian English)
🗣️ Real-Life Friendly Conversations
🎮 Gaming Friends
Ravi: Bro, ready for the match?
Arjun: Let’s go, champ. You better not choke this time, lazy bum 😄
🏀 Sports Friends
Jay: Nice shot, boss!
Aman: Thanks, man! You’re killing it too, rockstar!
🎯 These add flavour and energy to conversations.
🤪 Playful Teasing – English Style
English speakers love using teasing names to show closeness:
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“You’re such a drama queen.”
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“Don’t act smart, smarty.”
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“Okay okay, genius, we get it.”
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“Stop being a lazy bum and get up!”
✅ All of these are playful, not insulting — said with love.
But ❌ don’t use these with someone you just met.
📝 Practice Activity – Match the Term to the Tone
Term | Tone |
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Bro | Casual & friendly |
Boss | Playful praise |
Drama queen | Funny, teasing |
Rockstar | High energy praise |
Sis | Close, emotional |
✅ Now try using each in 1 sentence aloud.
💡 Quick Response Practice (Repeat Out Loud)
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“Yo bro, how’s life?”
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“Hey smarty, help me with this.”
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“Boss! That was awesome!”
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“What’s up, champ?”
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“Sis, don’t be so serious.”
🎯 Practice speaking these with emotion and rhythm.
🚫 Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake | What’s Wrong | Better |
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Using “bro” in formal email | Too casual | Use name or “Sir” |
Calling a girl “dude” | May feel awkward | Use “sis”, “girl”, or name |
Overusing one term in every sentence | Becomes annoying | Mix it up |
Using slang with elders | Disrespectful | Keep it simple or formal |
🎭 Mini Roleplay – Friends Catching Up
Riya: Yo sis, how was your trip?
Tanu: Amazing, smarty! I’ll send pics.
Riya: Can’t wait, drama queen 😄
Tanu: Haha! Meet at 5, lazy bum?
✅ Fun, casual, full of energy — this is how friends talk!
🎯 Build Your Own Friend Circle Vocabulary
Create a table like this:
Friend’s Name | Endearment | Why? |
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Akash | Champ | He wins every competition |
Reena | Smarty | Topper in class |
Rahul | Boss | Always gives orders 😂 |
Tanya | Rockstar | Full of energy |
🎯 Use these naturally in chats, reels, voice notes.
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✅ SECTION 5: Nicknames and Pet Names – Creating Your Own Endearments
One of the most personal, fun, and memorable ways to use terms of endearment is through nicknames or pet names. These are unique, intimate names you give someone based on their personality, habits, or your bond together. In this section, we’ll see how to create them, use them, and make sure they feel loving — not awkward.
🏷️ What Are Nicknames & Pet Names?
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Nickname is a secondary name used instead of or in addition to one’s real name (e.g., “Chris” for “Christopher”).
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Pet name / term of endearment nickname is a special name used only in affectionate contexts (e.g., “Pumpkin,” “Sunshine,” “Bear”).
These names are deeply personal and often reflect inside jokes, qualities, or memories.
✂️ How English Speakers Make Nicknames
Here are common patterns:
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Shortening or truncating a name
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Jonathan → Jon / Jonny
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Elizabeth → Liz / Lizzy
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Samantha → Sam / Sammie
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Adding a diminutive suffix (cute ending)
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John → Johnny
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Bella → Bellie
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Tom → Tommy
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Rhyming or playful alteration
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Tim → Timmy / Dimmy
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Molly → Polly
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Kate → Katie
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Personality-based pet names
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“Smiley” for someone who smiles a lot
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“Bookworm” for someone who loves reading
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“Sunshine” for someone cheerful
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Inside jokes or shared memories
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If someone spilled coffee first meeting → “Spill”
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If someone always laughs first → “Giggles”
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Use what’s meaningful to you two
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Animal or nature names
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“Bear,” “Bunny,” “Kitten,” “Honey Bee,” “Sunshine”
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🌍 Examples of Nicknames & Pet Names
Real Name / Trait | Nickname / Pet Name | Reason / Story |
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Rohan | Roro / Ro | Short and cute |
Ananya | Annie / Nia | Nickname version |
Dhruv | Dhu / Dru | Short form |
Someone smiling often | Smiley | His trait |
Someone always cheerful | Sunshine | Their nature |
🗣️ Using Your Nickname Naturally
When using a pet name, it’s usually placed before or after a phrase, just like:
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“Hey, sunshine, ready for dinner?”
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“I love you, my bunny.”
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“You did great, champ.”
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“Goodnight, sweetiepie!”
It’s softened by tone, pause, and happiness — not robotic or rushed.
🧠 Tips to Make Them Feel Right
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Start with something simple and gentle (e.g., “sweetie,” “honey”) before moving to custom ones.
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Test it in private first — see if the other person likes it.
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Don’t change nicknames too often; consistency builds appreciation.
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Avoid overly complicated or forced names in public settings.
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Use tone to express affection — the name will feel natural if you say it with warmth.
🎭 Dialogue Examples with Pet Names
Example 1 — Romantic Couple
You: “Good morning, sunshine!”
Partner: “Hey, my love, I missed you.”
Example 2 — Friends / Light Hearted
Friend A: “What’s up, smarty?”
Friend B: “Just chilling, boss. You?”
Example 3 — Family / Parent to Child
Parent: “Come here, little star.”
Child: “Yes, mommy!”
🚫 Mistakes and Things to Avoid
Mistake | Why It Feels Off | Better Approach |
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Using a romantic pet name with someone you just met | Sounds creepy or forward | Use name or “friend” first |
Too many nicknames in one sentence | Confusing or cheesy | Use one per message |
Changing nicknames very often | Loss of emotional bond | Stick with one or two favorites |
Public use when the other isn’t comfortable | Awkward | Ask first or use in private |
📝 Practice Task – Create Your Own Nicknames
Make a table:
Person | Traits / Memory | Possible Nicknames |
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A | Always laughs first | Giggles, Chatter |
B | Loves reading | Bookie, Reader |
C | Cheerful disposition | Sunshine, Bright Eyes |
Write sentences with each:
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“Come here, Giggles.”
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“You’re the best, Sunshine.”
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“Don’t worry, Reader — we’ve got this.”
🎯 Small Challenge for You
Choose 3 people you care about and create unique nicknames for each based on something you love about them (trait, memory, inside joke). Then use those names in one voice note or text message today.
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✅ SECTION 6: Terms of Endearment in Pop Culture & Media
When you watch movies, listen to songs, or scroll through social media, you’ll often see romantic, playful, or emotional expressions that include terms of endearment. These uses help you pick up tone, context, and naturalness— in a way that textbooks rarely capture.
In this section, we’ll explore how English media uses endearments, famous examples, how to analyze them, and how to use them more naturally in your own speech.
🎬 Why Pop Culture Matters for Learning Endearments
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Movies, TV shows, and songs use real-life language — including affectionate words.
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You hear tone, variation, expression — not just a flat list.
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You absorb cultural contexts — when it’s romantic, when it’s playful, when it’s dramatic.
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You see how native speakers respond — which helps you choose words that “feel right.”
So getting familiar with how media uses these terms is like having a listening laboratory.
💖 Famous Examples from Movies & Songs
Here are some well-known uses of endearments in pop culture:
Media / Song | Term(s) of Endearment Used | Context / Meaning |
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“I Will Always Love You” (Whitney Houston) | Darling, heart | Romantic, deep affection |
“Hey Jude” (The Beatles) | Jude (name, affectionate tone) | Singing to someone dear |
Romantic movies (Hollywood, Bollywood) | “My love,” “baby,” “sweetheart” | In dialogues, declarations, proposals |
TV series dialogues | “Hey, kiddo,” “honey,” “buddy” in casual talk | Family, friends, romance |
These references show how natural usage fits into emotional scenes, and how small words can make moments powerful.
📽️ How to Analyze Endearments in Media
When you hear or see a term of endearment in a song or movie:
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Pause and note the term
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Notice the tone (soft, playful, serious)
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See who says it to whom (lover, friend, parent)
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Observe the situation (romantic dinner, conflict, confession)
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Try imitating it — same tone, same emotion
Doing this repeatedly helps you internalize which terms fit which contexts.
🌟 Why Some Endearments Become Famous
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Catchy in songs — they add emotional depth
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Memorable dialogues — people quote “baby,” “my love,” etc.
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Used by celebrities — fans adopt them
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Cultural crossover — Bollywood, K‑dramas, American shows
When a word is repeated in songs or dialogues, it becomes part of everyday vocabulary.
🧩 Practice by Watching / Listening
✅ Movie & Dialogue Activity
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Pick your favorite romantic movie (English or dubbed).
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Write down 5 times characters use an endearment.
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Note: who said it, the tone, and whether it’s romantic, teasing or caring.
✅ Song Activity
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Pick a love song in English.
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Listen for endearments (baby, darling, love, honey).
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Try singing or reciting just that line — with emotion.
These exercises train your ear, your speaking muscles, and your cultural sense.
🗣️ Real-Life Usage Based on Media Examples
After watching or listening, try saying:
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“Just like in that song — darling, I miss you.”
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“In movies they say ‘baby, hold me’ — that feels so natural.”
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“I learned ‘sweetheart’ from my favorite movie scene.”
Use them in personal messages carefully.
❌ Pitfalls from Media Usage
Mistake | Why It Happens | Correction |
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Using movie-level drama in casual talk | You hear it in emotional scenes | Use softer versions in real life |
Misusing “baby” with strangers | Media normalizes it | Reserve for people you’re comfortable with |
Imitating tones that don’t suit your personality | Sounds fake or forced | Adapt to your natural voice |
Media can mislead — so always filter and adjust to your own style.
📝 Practice Task – Media to Speech
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Choose one movie clip or song line with an endearment.
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Write the dialogue line.
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Practice saying it aloud in the same emotion.
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Then, modify it to fit your own situation (partner, friend, family).
For example:
Original: “Darling, come with me.”
Your version: “Sweetheart, come here.”
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✅ SECTION 7: Using Endearments in Texting & Social Media
In today’s digital age, a huge part of how we express affection happens through screens — be it chat, posts, or stories. Terms of endearment in texting and social media carry emotion, playfulness, and intimacy — but they require care so they don’t seem awkward or forced.
In this section, we’ll explore how endearments work in digital language, casual abbreviations, emoji combinations, tone, and etiquette when using them online.
📱 Why Digital Endearments Matter
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They bridge physical distance: a warm word can make someone feel close even when far away.
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They make your messages more emotional, personal, and fun.
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You’ll often see them in love texts, DMs, stories, captions.
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They help you show your personality in otherwise flat digital text.
But — there’s a balance: get tone and timing right, or they may backfire.
💬 Common Endearment Abbreviations & Short Forms
Abbreviation / Short Form | Meaning / Context |
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luv | love (casual) |
bae | babe / before anyone else |
bff | best friend forever (friendship affection) |
bro / brah | brother / buddy |
hun | honey (casual) |
cutie / cutiepie | cute, dear one |
bb / bby | baby / babe (in romantic DMs) |
These are widely used in texting, social media captions, and replies.
😻 Emojis + Endearments = Emotional Amplifiers
Adding emojis can enhance or soften your tone. For example:
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“Goodnight, babe 😘”
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“You’re my sunshine ☀️💕”
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“Hey bro, want coffee later? ☕”
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“Miss you, cutiepie 🥰”
Emojis act like nonverbal cues — helping the receiver feel emotion, smile, or respond positively.
🧩 Tone & Style in Text — Maintaining Warmth
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Match the endearment with your closeness
Use “honey” or “baby” only with romantic partners; use “bro,” “sis,” “mate” with friends. -
Avoid overuse
Too many endearments in every sentence make it sound fake. -
Mind the context
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Use it in DMs, personal chats, captions — not in formal posts
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Don’t tag someone publicly with “sweetheart” unless it’s safe within your relationship
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Be responsive to their language
Mirror the style your friend or partner uses, but stay comfortable to your own style.
🗣️ Digital Conversation Examples
Example 1 — Romantic DM
You: “Hey babe, how was your day? 💖”
Partner: “Busy, but good. Miss you 😘”
Example 2 — Chat with Friend
You: “Yo bro, how’s the weekend plan going?”
Friend: “All set! You in?”
Example 3 — Caption / Story Post
Caption: “Sunset walks with my love 🌅💕”
Story mention: “My sunshine ☀️”
Notice how the word + emoji creates emotion without extra text.
❌ Mistakes in Digital Endearments
Mistake | Why It Doesn’t Work | Better Option |
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Calling someone “bae” too early | Can creep them out | Use name or “friend” first until trust builds |
Using romantic terms in group or public posts | Others may feel excluded | Use neutral or affectionate terms (buddy, dear) |
Tagging someone “sweetheart” when they don’t like it | May embarrass them | Ask or use milder terms |
Overloading with emojis + endearments | Looks childish | Use 1 or 2 emojis if needed |
Always think: how would I feel if someone called me this online?
📝 Practice Activity — Texting with Endearments
Write short texts (1–2 lines) using endearments + emoji, for these situations:
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To your partner, after a long day
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To your best friend before a weekend hangout
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Posting a selfie with someone you care about
Example:
“Miss you, babe 😘 Can’t wait to see you tomorrow.”
“Hey bro, ready for movie night?”
“With my sunshine ☀️❤️”
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✅ SECTION 8: Cultural Sensitivity and Boundaries with Endearments
Using terms of endearment can bring warmth, connection, and beauty to communication — but they also carry risk if misused. In this section, we’ll explore when to be careful, how cultural norms change meaning, and how to avoid awkward or offensive usage. This awareness will help you speak lovingly and respectfully.
🌐 Why Boundaries Matter
Terms of endearment are emotional tools, not generic vocabulary. Because of that:
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They can be misinterpreted depending on culture, gender, status, or relationship.
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What’s affectionate in one culture may be rude or strange in another.
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Overuse or misuse can backfire — sounding insincere, offensive, or overly familiar.
So knowing the rules and sensitivities is as important as knowing the words themselves.
🧭 Types of Cultural Sensitivity to Watch For
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Social hierarchy & respect
In many cultures, addressing elders, teachers, or superiors with affectionate terms can be disrespectful.
For example, calling your boss “sweetie” or “darling” in many workplaces would be unacceptable. -
Gender and context
Romantic endearments between opposite genders may be viewed differently across cultures.
In more traditional contexts, even calling a female friend “honey” can be misinterpreted. -
Public vs. private usage
Some terms are fine among close family or romantic partners but awkward or embarrassing if used publicly or in mixed company. -
Generational difference
Older generations may feel terms like “bae,” “luv,” or “boo” are informal or inappropriate. -
Cultural norms in different English-speaking countries
What’s acceptable in the U.S. or U.K. may not translate directly into your local culture.
For example, Americans might casually say “darling” to friends. In some places, that could be seen as excessive or intrusive.
🚫 Terms That Can Be Risky or Offensive
Term | Risk / Misinterpretation | Safer Alternative |
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Baby, babe (with someone you just met) | Can sound forward or flirtatious | Use name + polite greeting |
Sweetie / sweetheart (in formal or professional settings) | Too familiar for work | “Dear” is also risky in formal email; best to use titles + names |
Hun (in cross-gender use) | Some may assume romantic intent | Use with people you already know well |
Using terms with strangers | May sound patronizing or disrespectful | Stick to “sir”, “ma’am”, or names |
Overuse or repetition | Makes it seem insincere or forced | Use sparingly and naturally |
🧠 Tips to Respect Boundaries
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Start neutral — use the person’s name first, then gradually introduce an endearment if the relationship allows.
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Observe cues — if they respond positively, it’s safe; if they seem uncomfortable, back off.
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Ask or check — in uncertain cases, asking “Do you mind if I call you …?” is polite.
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Use tone and body language — softness, smile, context all matter.
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Avoid using affectionate terms in mixed, public, or formal settings unless you’re confident it’s appropriate.
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Adjust per culture — when speaking or interacting online with people from different cultures, be more conservative with these terms.
🗣️ Example Scenarios — What Could Go Wrong
1. Workplace situation
You: “Hi dear, can I ask you something?”
Colleague: awkward silence
Better: “Hi, [Name]. Could I ask you something?”
2. Public comment
You comment on friend’s post: “Beautiful, sweetheart!”
Some may see it as harmless; others may see it as too forward or uncomfortable.
3. Mixed-gender introduction
You meet someone new and say: “Hey, babe.”
They may assume more than you intend.
📝 Practice Activity — Decide the Boundary
Read these situations and decide whether to use a term of endearment, and if so, which:
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You texting your close friend at midnight — “____, did you sleep?”
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You greeting your new teacher — “Hello ____, nice to meet you.”
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You messaging a coworker about a project — “___, can you review this draft?”
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You messaging your partner in public chat — “Hi ____ ❤️”
Write your answers and reasoning behind them.
📣 Speak Lovingly—but Respectfully
Learning endearments is powerful, but being culturally aware and sensitive is what makes you a truly confident speaker. When you combine warmth with respect, your English becomes genuinely beautiful.
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✅ SECTION 9: Roleplays & Real‑Life Conversations Using Endearments
One of the best ways to internalize terms of endearment is practicing them in dialogues and roleplay. That way, when similar situations arise in your life, you speak naturally — not hesitantly.
In this section, I’ll give you realistic roleplays (romantic, family, friendship), tips on tone, and exercises so you can use endearments with confidence.
🎭 Roleplay 1: Romantic Conversation
Setting: A couple chatting in the evening
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You: “Good evening, my love. How was your day?”
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Partner: “Busy, but okay. How are you, darling?”
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You: “I missed you, baby. Want to take a walk together?”
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Partner: “That sounds perfect, sweetheart.”
Practice tips:
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Use a gentle, soft voice.
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Pause before the endearment word to make it special.
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Let the endearment feel natural — not forced.
🎭 Roleplay 2: Family Use – Parent & Child
Setting: At home after school
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Child: “Mummy, I have some news!”
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Parent: “Tell me, sweetie. I’m all ears.”
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Child: “I got an A+ on my test.”
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Parent: “That’s amazing, angel. I’m so proud of you.”
Practice tips:
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Use affectionate tone, warmth in your voice.
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Smile if speaking in person.
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Use phrases like “my little star,” “angel,” “munchkin.”
🎭 Roleplay 3: Friends Using Friendly Endearments
Setting: Two friends meeting after a long day
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Friend A: “Hey bro, how was your work?”
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Friend B: “Tiring, but okay. How about you, champ?”
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Friend A: “I’m good, boss. Let’s grab coffee.”
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Friend B: “Sure thing, superstar.”
Practice tips:
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Use casual, confident tone.
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Use terms like “bro,” “champ,” “boss,” “star.”
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Don’t overdo it — sprinkle one or two per conversation.
🧩 Exercise: Create Your Own Roleplay
Pick one of these scenarios:
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You and your romantic partner texting
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You and your sibling chatting at home
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You and your best friend planning a trip
Write a short 4–5 line dialogue using 1–2 endearments. Then speak it aloud with emotion, tone, and pacing.
Example:
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“Hey love, what’s for dinner tonight?”
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“Hi honey, I was thinking pasta. How does that sound, baby?”
📝 Fill-in-the-Blanks Roleplay Version
Replace blank parts with an appropriate endearment:
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“Hey ___, did you eat?”
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“You did so well, ___!”
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“Goodnight, ___. Sweet dreams.”
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“What’s up, ___?”
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“Come here, my little ___.”
(Answers will depend on relationship — e.g. “Hey babe,” “You did so well, champ,” “Goodnight, sweetheart,” “What’s up, bro?” “Come here, my little angel.”)
🛠 Tips to Make Roleplays More Effective
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Record yourself and listen to your tone.
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Practice with a friend or peer — swapping roles.
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Use a mirror so you see your expressions.
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Start with private practice before using in real life.
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Be patient — feedback and repetition will improve your comfort.
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✅ SECTION 10: Final Practice + Daily Usage Plan for Fluency
You’ve traveled through definitions, examples, dialogues, and cultural cautions. Now it’s time to bring everything into your daily life and cement your fluency with terms of endearment. This final section gives you concrete practice, plans, and motivation to use what you’ve learned — every day.
🧩 A. Practice Exercises: Fill-in-the-Blanks & Transformations
Fill each gap with the best endearment (romantic, friendly, family, or pet name) given the context:
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“Good morning, ___! Did you sleep well?”
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“Hey ___, ready for the movie tonight?”
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“Graandma, bring me water, ___.”
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“You nailed that presentation, ___!”
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“I miss you so much, my ___.”
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“Come here, my little ___.”
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“What’s up, ___? How’s your day going?”
Then transform neutral sentences into affectionate ones:
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Neutral: “You look nice today.”
Affectionate: “You look lovely, my love.” -
Neutral: “Let’s go to dinner.”
Affectionate: “Let’s go to dinner, darling.” -
Neutral: “How was your exam?”
Affectionate: “How was your exam, champ?”
🔄 B. Role‑Play Scripts to Practice Out Loud
Here are two ready scripts. Practice with a partner, record yourself, or recite before a mirror.
1. Romantic Dinner Conversation
You: “My darling, the candlelight looks beautiful tonight.”
Partner: “Yes, sweetheart. Everything is perfect.”
You: “Thank you, my love. I’m glad we’re here together.”
Partner: “Me too, baby. I cherish you.”
2. Family/Casual Setting
Mother: “How was school today, my little angel?”
Child: “It was good, mommy. I learned new things.”
Mother: “That’s amazing, pumpkin. I’m proud of you.”
Child: “Thanks, mom. I love you.”
📅 C. 7‑Day Fluency Plan
Use this plan to gradually embed affectionate language into your daily speech. Even 5–10 minutes a day helps.
Day | Focus & Task |
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Day 1 | Write down 10 terms of endearment you feel comfortable using. |
Day 2 | Use one endearment in a text or voice message to someone close. |
Day 3 | Practice 3 role‑play lines using endearments (romantic / family / friend). |
Day 4 | Watch a song or movie clip; note every endearment and say them aloud. |
Day 5 | Create affectionate nicknames for 3 people and use them in short sentences. |
Day 6 | Join a speaking group or partner; try a short dialogue with at least 2 endearments. |
Day 7 | Reflect: Write a short paragraph about your progress and plan next week’s goals. |
🗣️ D. Voice Recording Practice
Pick 3 prompts. Record yourself speaking each for 30–45 seconds, using appropriate endearments:
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Describe how you feel about someone you care for — include a term like “darling,” “love,” or “sweetheart.”
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Talk to a friend about your day — include “bro,” “babe,” “champ,” or other casual endearment.
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Speak to a family member — “mom,” “dad,” or “child” — using a loving nickname (“angel,” “sunshine”).
Play back your recording. Notice your tone, pauses, and comfort with the words. Try again if needed.
💬 E. Writing & Messaging Challenge
Write one message (text, email, or note) to someone you care about, using 2–3 terms of endearment naturally. Example:
“Hey sunshine, I hope you had a great day. I miss you already, my love. Let’s catch up soon, darling.”
The purpose: make it warm and genuine, not forced or over the top.
🎯 F. Self‑Assessment Checklist
After each day, ask yourself:
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Did I use a term of endearment genuinely today?
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Did it feel natural or awkward?
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Did the listener react positively?
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Which endearment did I like saying the most?
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Which ones felt uncomfortable? Why?
Over time, you’ll notice which ones fit your style.
📣 Final Motivation & Next Steps
You’ve now got every tool you need — from grammar and context to practice plans — to speak English with emotion, warmth, and confidence using terms of endearment.
But true mastery lies in use — in everyday conversations, messages, and roleplays. Speak them, record them, refine them.
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